Blogging For Blood Cancer

Posted by Connie on Monday, August 4th, 2008 at 9:49 pm and is filed under Blogging Community, Cancer.
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I met Goodies for Mom on the Mom Bloggers Club when she wrote about needing people who have had experience with any type of blood cancer to write a post about it. Since I’ve had the unfortunate situation happen to my sister I knew I wanted to do anything I could to help out.

My sister was only 32 when she was diagnosed with Leukemia and within 6 months she was gone. She had a 9 month old little boy, a 3 year old little girl, a husband, Mom, 2 sisters, nieces, nephews and cousins, aunts and uncles and lots and lots of friends. She was a joy to be around. She was funny and loving. She was brave and angry. She was full of hope and was told she’d live to be a grandmother. She lost all of her hair and was still beautiful. She couldn’t wait to exercise and run again when her treatments were over. She loved her children with all of her heart.

I was her stem cell donor. I was pregnant when she was diagnosed but her doctors said it was best to wait for me to have my baby and donate my bone marrow. Then when it was time for the transplant, the insurance wouldn’t pay, the doctors thought she’d be better off with stem cells instead of marrow and so it went.

Three weeks after enduring the strong chemotherapy and getting my stem cells she was gone. She had complained the night before that her stomach hurt her so much. For the first time she accepted pain medicine. The next morning, My Mom who stayed with her in the hospital gave her a sponge bath because she was too weak to shower. My sister didn’t remember much about the night before.

Her husband came to see her and my Mom took a shower. She heard my brother-in-law screaming. She got out of the shower to see nurses and doctors trying to revive my sister. They put her on life support but there was no brain waves, no sign of life. She was taken off that day.

Today with the advances made by the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society she may have been cured or given more time. I know that her insurance company wouldn’t have declared the bone marrow treatment as “experimental”.

There are prizes listed at Goodies for Moms for those that blog about this cause, but the best prize of all would be a cure for all types of blood cancers including leukemia, lymphoma, Hodgkin’s disease and myeloma.

Visit Friends of Heroes National Light the Night Team and how you can help raise money for a cure, for education, for support and for awareness. The money raised will go to the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society to help them attain these goals.

Spread the word!

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  1. Thank you so much for this post!!!! I was in tears thinking of your family and what you’ve been through. Stupid cancer!!!

    Your sister is why we do what we do to try to help LLS and thank you for helping us promote our event. I’d love to include a link to your post on our blogs with an excerpt if that is ok.

    comment by Lois — August 4, 2008 @ 10:19 pm
  2. Connie, Oh, I’m so sorry for your sister, for you, her family and all who loved her.

    Can’t imagine what it was like for you to be ready to donate the stem cells and have insur. deny it–horrendous!

    It sounds like your sister was so brave..and it is an inspiration that you work for her cause. Your love for her eminates through your words…as does a picture of the “full of life” person that she was.

    Kerry’s last blog post..?Fluff Between the Ears?

    comment by Kerry — August 5, 2008 @ 7:15 pm
  3. Hi,

    I finished my task “MBC Dropper”. I hope you can copy paste the code to your blog. I posted in here. You can check what I did.

    I will visit your blog again tomorrow to see if you did copy paste to your blog or not. Thanks. See you around…

    Juliana RW

    comment by Juliana RW — August 6, 2008 @ 7:45 am
  4. You can count me in. My husband had Hodgkin’s Lymphoma almost 16 years ago.

    Mandy’s last blog post..What Kind Of Billionaire Would You Be?

    comment by Mandy — August 6, 2008 @ 4:10 pm
  5. Writing about your sister is such an awesome way to remember her. I, too, have had lots of experience with blood cancers. My little girl was diagnosed with Leukemia when she was only 3 1/2. Thank you for this post. I’m definitely going to check out that link you gave.

    Jewels’s last blog post..The Other Child

    comment by Jewels — August 7, 2008 @ 12:18 am
  6. Friends of Heroes National Light the Night Teams for Leukemia and Lymphoma Society | My Chronic Life…

    Story of my sister who died from Leukemia at a young age. She was a mother of two. We need to find a cure for blood cancers. By blogging about this we can help spread the word!…

    trackback by — August 11, 2008 @ 12:21 am
  7. Hi Connie,

    It is late in the “Blogging for Blood Cancer” week. I have finally posted about this important cause on my blog.

    Thank you for sharing Friends of Heroes with us and for giving us “bloggers” an opportunity to do a very little something for such an important reason–finding cures for devastating blood cancers!

    Kerry’s last blog post..Blogging for Blood Cancer-Friends of Heroes

    comment by Kerry — August 14, 2008 @ 11:49 pm

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